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What's wrong with meeting for coffee first? I love that idea and damn coffee is delicious! His loss I'm guessing
He's the type of man that has the wrong idea about women on AFF.
I don't really understand why he is contacting anyone if not willing to do the basics of getting to know a little about the person he's contacting. Personally, I insist on a meet for coffee so I can look a person in the eyes and talk and find out what they are really like. Online banter tends to be phony as hell for me. A public meet also ensures a safe environment to feel comfortable. As for the other two, well, you can't fix stupid.
It just blew my mind " Oh I don't do that" as if I was asking something shameful. I wonder how much action he gets. xxx
He did you a favor, if there is not a mutual connection from the beginning what's the sense?
We need to establish trust and confidence in one another to enjoy each others company and possibly move onto the real physical attraction we're looking for...FWB or NSA arrangement might be considered
the perfect senerio for both parties....You want to know the other person first...!
Yes, what kind of creep is this guy? Not willing to do a very basic thing to make a potential partner comfortable? Ewww.
His loss! I also like to meet first and decide if we are a fit - I'm really only seeking casual sex, but I still need to have a little chemistry.
I absolutely need to get a feel for someone before inviting them to my home, or going to theirs. We can't be 100% safe doing this, but getting a feel for someone's energy before being alone with them is just common sense.