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Also those who say they are a dominate. 😂
I've seen that from women too.
That always makes me get the BIG red pen out of my editrix box.
Usually, any labels are just plain silly. Anybody pretentious enough to use them when trying to find a partner is best given a wide berth.
That's exactly what I think too, pretentious!
Anyone who calls themselves an "alpha male" is an insecure little boy. Ditto for anyone referring to themselves as "daddy".
Growing up in the southern US, all children called their fathers "daddy" so it's just weird moving away and finding out it's a fetish/sex thing!
If someone refers to themselves as an alpha male, they probably aren't an alpha male. I used to work with a guy (I won't even call him a dude) that labeled himself an alpha. he was a muscle guy, he had to be right all the time. There were a bunch of us in a meeting. I was 6 months new to the office and I countered him on an idea knowing the reaction I was going to get from him. He wasn't the boss or anything, but I just offered an alternative idea. He stood up and got loud. He literally stomped his feet. I didn't expect the foot-stomping, but it was an entertaining bonus. He was a piece of work.
True... it's like, if you have to announce it, you probably aren't! The foot stomping must have been hilarious!!!
Automatically ruled out. In fact, anyone who mentions Alpha Beta or Sigma is a hard pass for me.
It's like... what's next? I wonder if those self-referring men are still salty they didn't get into their favorite fraternity in school.
@TicklePlease apparently identifying as alpha means not a woke pussyhole.
Makes perfect sense why women steer clear of them. 😂
@EnigmaInitiative Those would be the words of someone who doesn’t know what “woke” means, except as from a right-wing pejorative. And, who probably hasn’t been anywhere near an functioning, willing pussy “hole” in a while?
Hmmm … those comments were pretty mean … to some … LOL
@EnigmaInitiative you must not be a real alpha... a real alpha would have written in all caps. Just saying.
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bwaaaahahahahahahahahahahahahahah
@allgud69xxx true on both accounts .
My understanding is REAL alohas don’t need to look for wimmenz because us feeemales just flock to them.
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Self proclaimed "Alphas" are ALWAYS anything but. It is a hard no but a mandatory laugh.
Indeed... and I like your phrase "mandatory laugh," that's perfect!!!
Kind of like calling yourself ‘humble’.
Bingo!!!
Not seeking so didn't vote, but good point! 🤣
Well yeah, not many women go around bragging they're "Alpha"
Yup, the desire for titles is a bit of a red flag....
The snow just started, expecting 4-6 inches over today with maybe a little more in some spots. Hopefully not MY spot as I have to work all day! Are you going to have a "walk on the treadmill or ride the bike BEFORE belly-ing up to the bar" rule?
@TicklePlease
@lonlyforlove2 yikes, you're not used to that kind of cold, we are!!! Ended up with about 4.5" here, just enough to foul up the roads but not enough to last and make things pretty. Ah well, enjoy those shoes for the short time you have to wear them!
Any man who must say, "I am the king" is no true king. - Tywin Lannister
The same applies here.
Exactly! (bonus points for GoT quote)
Even beta software can be buggy, but it's an improvement over alpha
Exactly!!
Did you know that in the wild, monkeys that howl the loudest have the smallest junk. There is an actual study on this…….food for thought.
omg that's excellent! I'm totally going to look that one up!!! Thanks!
Real men love to be dominant around their ladies and as for me I love to be treated like a kings wife so when my man acts like that i like it but i love it more when he shows off his body on the beach yeah omg I hope I'm not saying too much lol
oh yeah, a man who treats his partner like that is great... but when he has to announce he's an alpha, that's when he becomes a loser!
Yep.....too much work, those self proclaimed Alphas. Yup...." not fit for the public " is correct !! ~
Gives "beta testing" a fun little twist of thought tho...
Alpha males like to mark their territory. Keep submissives handy to do their bidding. I'm to old for that nonsense. And mean
Hugs!
hahahaha Same girl, same. I'm just too old and crabby for somebody to screech on about how alpha they are!
A self proclaimed Alpha probably isn’t……lol
Exactly! (seems like everybody knows but them!)
The alpha knows he's the alpha. You can see it in the ways he carries himself. He's confident without being cocky and a total gentleman. He's got nothing to prove!! Any dude saying he's an alpha is usually just a scared, insecure little boy or a fraternity brother. Someone runs that crap on me....flag on the play!! Next.
Excellent response and definition! The keyword that seems to differentiate the sayers from the doers is "gentleman" and you nailed it.
Areal "alpha male" does not go around saying he is an alpha male. Just like how a true millionaire does not need to go around boasting about it.
Bingo! Saying you are, negates that you actually are!
Absolutley
You and the majority of folks here!
Turns out, the identification of "alpha male" was based on research on caged wolves and not on real world activities.
Exactly! Funny how the "alpha" label stuck but the butt sniffing didn't...
Absolutely.
You're in the majority there!
That's really deep ! Alpha man
I'm kind of singing your last phrase like the spider man song from the old cartoon....
I also rule out people (women or couples) who say they are looking for an "alpha" because that says they're looking for someone who postures and struts their ego, trying to roleplay some imaginary character, rather than looking for a real, honest, human being.
Exactly... performing!
You can label yourselves anyway you like, doesn't make it so. In the end, it's other's perceptions of you that make that definition valid.
Indeed... I'd like to label myself a badass bitch but sadly I'm a happy hugger.
I LOVE Alpha types in men, and women. They have very strong personalities and they know what they want and they usually get it. I think that is very attractive.
Having those traits is very attractive.... when someone has to announce they're alpha tho... big time lame!