Briefly: I've learned that nowadays standard members can't reply to message so on the IM without paying points, so if I don't reply to you, that is most likely the reason, though I can via normal private message. And it's probably a spending/"Gotcha!" type of thing, but chats are 17 points, not the tipping-standard 13, so I swear I'm not a jerk if I don't reply after that either. My username gives a super brief intro, but as my name suggests: I am a gal who tends to lean a bit on the shy-er side. I am located in Durham Region, and freshly stepping into the online hookup world after a rather extended break. I've had some success on AFF before, so decided to give it another try. Also relating to my name, I am very much submissive and looking to find partners who are more heavily on the dominant side of play. I very much enjoy pleasing my partner, bondage/restraint, moderate impact/pain play, oral, rimming my partners, dirty talk/name calling, light/moderate force (with trusted partners, of course,) and I'm sure a few other things that aren't coming to me at the moment. I am into the softer side of things too, such as kissing, cuddling, and maintaining contact with my partner between play sessions. I enjoy the human connection and sharing a laugh as much as the actual act, and makes the dirty stuff that much more satisfying for me personally. I do rely on public transportation to travel, so my preference tends to be westward along the Lakeshore lines, and I am looking for someone with regular availability. And while I don't live alone, and therefore can't always host at the drop of a hat, I do have a decently open availability to host. I am a bigger gal, hence the BBW, and looking for someone who is attracted to that body type. While this is a sexually-oriented site, we are all still people with dignity and should be respected, and I ask that of my messages. I also don't personally play online, sorry.

My Ideal Person I have always been attracted to and am looking for older men (~40+), and as previously mentioned, someone who is dominant in the bedroom. Also someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously, and knows how to share a laugh, especially in sexual situations.

I am also looking for someone who is relatively local, looking for something ongoing, and enjoys communicating in between play sessions. I enjoy the continued connection and build up

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Rimming, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave)

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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