I am looking to connect when ever possible and have a place FairPlay to play (for those of you who know Rain Storm she is ok with this...she is the nicest person!). Flexible on place to play. I can tell you if you think just looking is fun wait until you meet and try connecting...it is incredible and not as big of a deal as you might think, assuming you are looking for fun, not to be judged in anyway and ok after we meet with having the confidence that we just had fun. If you are at that point and cool with everything then I know We will hit it off. I am good person and looking for the same. Trust is key so it will take time for both to build. Can meet at hotel location in Parsippany...of course nice hotel. Meet and see where it goes. I prefer a very versatile but with men I prefer to be sub. I am clean and expect the same. I am all open to dressing up with right person but only if this is something you would be ok with. Passable is not a must...clean, fun and nice are my must haves. I would love to have a drink or two...not get sloppy drunk and relax a bit if that helps. Think about your fantasy and what you want to do and let’s make it happen. Do not worry about a safe location or meeting somebody you can not trust...let that part go because I did.